I'm running wpmu with BuddyPress, but I don't think think this is an issue exclusive to BuddyPress, as I've seen it discussed on various forums. Here's the problem:
When users register on the site and create their profile, they add their first and last name (display name), but that data isn't written into the user profile accessed through user profile.php and user-edit.php; there, the first and last name fields are blank. This means that when one of these registered users comments, their username appears with the comment, rather than their display name.
As far as I can tell, there's no plugin that will automatically add the display name to the user profile, but it's been suggested to me that it could be done. Unfortunately, I don't know enough php to write a plugin.
I have gathered from my searches in forums that a key to this process is update_usermeta( )--but I don't know what to do with that. Any help would be *most* appreciated, both by me and undoubtedly others who are looking for similar solutions.