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OK, Here's what I had in my copy of bp-sn-parent named bp-sn-parent-members in header.php

<div id="header">	

			<h1 id="logo"><a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Home', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php bp_site_name() ?></a></h1>

			<ul id="nav">
				<li<?php if ( bp_is_page( 'home' ) ) : ?> class="selected"<?php endif; ?>>

				<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Home', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Home', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>
				<li<?php if ( bp_is_page( BP_HOME_BLOG_SLUG ) ) : ?> class="selected"<?php endif; ?>>

				<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>/<?php echo BP_HOME_BLOG_SLUG ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Blog', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Blog', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>

				<li<?php if ( bp_is_page( BP_MEMBERS_SLUG ) ) : ?> class="selected"<?php endif; ?>>

				<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>/<?php echo BP_MEMBERS_SLUG ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Members', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Members', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>

				<?php if ( function_exists( 'groups_install' ) ) : ?>
					<li<?php if ( bp_is_page( BP_GROUPS_SLUG ) ) : ?> class="selected"<?php endif; ?>>

					<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>/<?php echo BP_GROUPS_SLUG ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Groups', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Groups', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>
				<?php endif; ?>

				<?php if ( function_exists( 'groups_install' ) && ( function_exists( 'bp_forums_setup' ) && !(int) get_site_option( 'bp-disable-forum-directory' ) ) ) : ?>

					<li<?php if ( bp_is_page( BP_FORUMS_SLUG ) ) : ?> class="selected"<?php endif; ?>>

					<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>/<?php echo BP_FORUMS_SLUG ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Forums', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Forums', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>
				<?php endif; ?>

				<?php if ( function_exists( 'bp_blogs_install' ) ) : ?>

					<li<?php if ( bp_is_page( BP_BLOGS_SLUG ) ) : ?> class="selected"<?php endif; ?>>

					<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>/<?php echo BP_BLOGS_SLUG ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Blogs', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Blogs', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>
				<?php endif; ?>

				<?php do_action( 'bp_nav_items' ); ?>
			</ul>

			<?php do_action( 'bp_header' ) ?>

		</div>

It made most sense to me that even if my users are in their own blogs, that the menu items do the following

Home ==> Site Home,
Blog ==> That member's blog
Members ==> Site Members
Groups ==> Site Groups
Forums ==> Site Forums
Blogs ==> Site Blogs

So this is what I did.

<div id="header">	

			<h1 id="logo"><a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>" title="<?php _e( 'Home', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php bp_site_name() ?></a></h1>

			<ul id="nav">
				<li>				

				<a href="http://community.urine-therapy.org/">Home</a></li>

				<li class="selected">

				<a href="<?php echo get_option('home') ?>/" title="<?php _e( 'Blog', 'buddypress' ) ?>"><?php _e( 'Blog', 'buddypress' ) ?></a></li>

				<li>
				<a href="http://community.urine-therapy.org/members/">Members</a></li>

					<li>
					<a href="http://community.urine-therapy.org/groups/">Groups</a></li>

					<li>
					<a href="http://community.urine-therapy.org/forums/">Forums</a></li>

					<li>
					<a href="http://community.urine-therapy.org/blogs/">Blogs</a></li>

				<?php do_action( 'bp_nav_items' ); ?>
			</ul>

			<?php do_action( 'bp_header' ) ?>

		</div>

Wouldn't the Buddypress forums be the best place for this?