Haven't tried wp-super-cache, we had WPCache on before it was out and I don't see a reason to migrate. None of the differences with WP-Cache mentionned on supercache home page make much sense to me. I don't like the idea of plugins messing with my .htaccess, and as I made the argument in my post, you *don't want* the cache enabled for all your users because for 95% of them it will be bad for your perfs. You do want to run a couple of php lines to decide if the current blog is worth using cached pages or not. We have here a list built into an external file included via php, and this list is updated by a cron job. Anytime a blog has more than 20 users online (measured via another plugin we have), the blog is added to the list. In our tests 20 online users is a quite good limit to decide whether a blog should be cached or not. Most often HTTP servers' hard drives have been the bottelnecks in our architecture, so you really don't want to put unnecessary strain on them.
Regarding our architecture, we have a reverse proxy in place for HTTP routing + caching + compression + serving theme files + hosting home page and forums. Reverse proxying is quite convenient when you want to move blogs around on backend HTTP servers, block or redirect temporarily blogs based on URL criteria, etc. We're not redundant at the http level as of yet, mostly because of static files taking a lot of space, and solutions for sharing them across machines being too expensive in terms of cost or performances. We're currently looking into having some servers dedicated to hosting static files, while a cluster of HTTPs would do the PHPing, but that needs quite a bit of hacking to achieve (although the reverse proxy can help too in this domain, by routing /files/ URLs differently than the others). And we need to find servers with huge and fast HDs :-p.
I'll look into providing an rss feed, right now these are pages because my main blog is in french and i didn't want to mix the two languages, but maybe I can play around that using some categories and a tuned home page. I'll look into this.
Regarding the fondue, not so close to christmas and new year, I'm just too full right now :-p.