lol. ah well andrea i dont mind being a fool if it means my goals are still achievable. Let me go try again.....
ok so it's not In /wp-content/plugins/widgets/widgets.php
but infact wp-includes/widget.php
right im ok there as the 1st didnt exist. Lets start this.
change one-
if ( empty($items) || $items < 1 ) $items = 21;
change two-
`if ( isset($_POST['rss-number-submit']) ) {
$number = (int) $_POST['rss-number'];
if ( $number > 20 ) $number = 20;
if ( $number < 1 ) $number = 1;`
change three-
<select id="rss-number" name="rss-number" value="<?php echo $options['number']; ?>">
<?php for ( $i = 1; $i < 21; ++$i ) echo "<option value='$i' ".($options['number']==$i ? "selected='selected'" : '').">$i</option>"; ?>
change four-
`$options = get_option('widget_rss');
$number = $options['number'];
if ( $number < 1 ) $number = 1;
if ( $number > 20 ) $number = 20;`
:fingerscrossed
:(
im still getting the pull down option of 20 rss widgets but sadly still the same 9 in the dragable area. I wont worry too much about it andrea. Its always the same with these sort of things. everyone is fine and im the one getting strange errors. these things are sent to try us. I wont bother uunless someone has any ideas of what could be wrong. thanks again for all the help folks.