Wordpress mu is great but I am abandoning it on the vps server listed above simply because there is no help available to support wpmu. It seems that it either works for you or it doesn't. I am going to move the domain to a shared server, and in the mean time, use my vps to educate myself, and let my IT guy use it for a sandbox to get himself up to speed... a trade off that benefits us both in exchange for getting his help and advice. Thanks to everyone for your patience and what help you were able to offer. If I solve this problem, I will report my findings back here. :)